Saturday, 29 September 2007

"Putus tali"

Literally translated, the above phrase means broken string. In this story, it relates to a broken racquet string.

I went to play badminton on Wednesday night after yet another trip to the nation's capital for interviews (more on interviews later - I'm close to having a job, so I'll write about it more when it's all confirmed). There were a whole bunch of us that night, and I didn't know more than half the people there. One of the guys asked M for a racquet to borrow, and M passed him one, giggling like a little boy (as he usually does). I wasn't paying much attention as I was talking to BG, but I vaguely heard a few giggles and snickers from the people around me. The next thing I knew, almost everyone had burst out laughing, and when I looked up, I saw that the guy, E(who happens to be M's brother), had tried to hit the shuttlecock, not realising that M had given him a racquet with no strings! C saw that the racquet had no strings, giggled, and fed the shuttlecock to E, who obviously puzzled at why he had completely missed the shuttlecock! The whole situation had everyone crying with laughter. For me, it was made all the more funny by the sound of M's laugh. Hilarious. I'll try to attach a sound clip of him laughing one day :)

Something else for your viewing pleasure:
I originally took a photo of this truck/ute to show my dad - it belongs to his friend's company. But then I noticed the right wheel at the back - it's not even fully on the curb!

Monday, 24 September 2007

Breakfast at Tiffany's

I watched this movie this morning. Don't think I've ever seen it, despite knowing the name, or if I have, I must've been very young and don't remember. I think it's more likely that I haven't, because I watched Gone with the Wind when I was very young, and I remember that.

Breakfast at Tiffany's is such a romantic movie. I know Casablanca is often touted to be the love story of all time, but I haven't seen it. Breakfast at Tiffany's is pretty good though. And I guess I can see why Tiffany's is so strongly linked to romance, love, all that kind of stuff. The fact that the store has been around for a long time probably helps, too.
Audrey Hepburn looked so perfect and the movie is proof that fashion really does repeat itself. What she wore in it, circa 1960 is so fashionable today, from the the highlights in her hair, to the big sunglasses, and down to her black alligator shoes.

Waiting for Hairspray to start showing in Kuching cinemas (that's right, it's not showing yet!). Then I'll have to find someone to drag along to see it. That might be a little more difficult.

Saturday, 22 September 2007

Sick Mind

I don't know if this news has been given extensive coverage overseas, but it certainly has here. I imagine it has been overshadowed in the World News by politics and the case of the Chinese girl left at Southern Cross Station in Melbourne.

An 8 y.o. Malay girl went missing on August 20, purportedly dragged screaming into a van. A nationwide 'missing persons' campaign was launched, with banners put up everywhere, and flyers with her picture being circulated. On Monday this week, about 4 weeks after she went missing, her body was found in a sports bag. A post-mortem done on her body revealed that she had been sexually assaulted (news link), and that it had caused her rectum to rupture, get infected, and this may have been the cause of her death. Her parents did not even recognise her when called in to identify the body. The only way of confirming her identity was dental records and DNA testing.

As parents, you would never hope for your child to no longer be alive, and this girl's parents could not believe that the body they were looking at was that of their daughter's. They could not recognise her, claiming she looked only "50%" like the little girl they knew. Unfortunately for them, there were medical explanations for the changes in her appearance. They have now accepted the results of the DNA test and dental matching, and have lain her to rest.

It is such a sad event to have happened, to the family, and also to the girl to have endured what she did in the final month of her life. What sick mind could have done such a thing to an innocent child? Why didn't anyone try to stop the kidnapper? May Nurin rest in peace now that her ordeal is over.

Tuesday, 18 September 2007

Blogs

Why do people blog? I know it's not a major issue in the world, but there are many reasons why people put their thoughts and/or private lives on the world wide web. Some people loathe the fact that some bloggers talk about their daily lives.

Blogs can be an avenue for people to air their views, vent their frustration, or just make observations. Others use it as a kind of diary, making notes as they go through life. And then there are those who use it as a way of keeping in touch with people the world over - friends, family, relatives, acquaintances. Still others just feel like sharing information, tips on various matters, and wisdom with the world at large. These are just a few possible drivers for the popularity of weblogs.

I started this blog with the intention of keeping friends up-to-date with the goings-on in my life after Melbourne. It has slowly evolved to include everything mentioned in the previous paragraph, although the majority of it is still kinda of like an open diary. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I find it personally a bit offending when someone says that blogs like mine are pointless. I used to wonder why anyone would blog at all (thinking, who has time to read it?) but like some social networking tools on the internet, I have found their benefits. Everything in the one place (and you won't be losing this diary!), which is especially handy when you're moving all the time, traveling etc. By the way, it's not advisable that you put your travel plans on your blog, for safety reasons.

And so we live and let live, and hope that others will do the same. And keep their mouths shut if they can help it :)

Monday, 17 September 2007

Book covers

We all know the saying - never judge a book by its cover. Sometimes, the contents are just so obvious, other times, you get fooled. Today, I learnt some bits of info that reinforced my views of certain individuals, and other bits that completely took me by surprise. I guess it really is hard to know a person's story unless they're really open, or you get to know them better with time. Like tonight, those bits of information that surprised me still do not give me the full story, so I shall have to be patient and pick up clues and information as I go along.

Completely unrelated topic:
Lots of time to think about anything at all means that I'm starting to come up with a list of things that I'd like to have eventually, though hopefully I'll be able to afford them sooner rather than later :)

I know I've already had a car but I didn't buy it with my own money. Next time, I'd love a BMW, like the 1 series. I know most people would think that the 1 series is a waste of time as it's considered an 'entry level' car, might as well get the 3 or 5 series, but I quite like the size of the 1 series. And the 2-door version, particularly. However, if I have to be more practical, then I'd love a Toyota Prius, for its friendliness towards the environment and the wallet.

I have long coveted a Tiffany ring, and maybe one day I'll own one, when I have a job (and money) and pluck up enough courage to enter one of their stores! They look so posh! I normally consider my tastes to be pretty simple and classic. When I went shopping with B just before I left Melbourne, in a moment of madness, I chose what looked like a glitzy ring over a plainer one, and now I wonder why. So I know that if I were to get something that is worth quite a bit, I'd go simpler (but not too plain and boring). I guess being able to strike that balance will come with time. Everything takes time, it seems. Can someone please tap Hiro Nakamura's brain already so that we learn how to stop time??

Ooh, speaking of which, Heroes boxed DVD set. Released. Another item on my list :)

Sunday, 16 September 2007

stuffed.

I have just gotten back from my grandfather's birthday dinner and am so full, it's ridiculous. Didn't help that we had an intense soccer session today, so I was too tired to be hungry. Typical Chinese 8 or 10 course meal, with a side of loud, sometimes horrible karaoke singing for 3 hours. I'm not sure how you're supposed to have a social extended family gathering (read: about 12 tables) when you can't hear the person next to you. Now I have to go to bed. It's almost 11, and I have to get up at 6 to send dad to the airport, then prepare for my interview at 8. Not even sure I can sleep, just waaaay to full.

oooh...I'm going to be an aunt in about 7 1/2 months' time!! wheeeeeeeeeee

'Old' Girl

I have tried to fit in here, and as I mentioned in a previous post, was getting a bit attached and quite reluctant to leave, but recent events have put my mind at ease, and if I move to a different city to work, I''ll have almost no qualms about leaving.

It also reminds me why, before I left to study overseas, I usually hung out with older kids. Now even the older ones don't seem their age. It's disappointing, but a relief at the same time.

Thursday, 13 September 2007

51st post

Didn't realise I had hit 50 posts the other day!! Woo-hoo!! Although I admit that my posts have become fewer and farther apart. Oh well.

I am into my 20th hour awake, having gotten up at 5am today to catch a flight to KL, attend an interview, then catch a flight back within 12 hours. It was mum's birthday so I didn't want to stay in KL for the night. We had dinner at home, some more of that Tiramisu ice-cream cake that we're slowly working through, and then I went off to what may be my last session of futsal before I start working. Maybe, because I have no idea how soon I may have to start work...and it depends on if the team actually gets disbanded...and whether I get something in Kuching.

As for the jobs, now is the heavy rain after the drought, and I'm stressed in a different way. All of a sudden it seems that I'm spoilt for choice (if I do get offered a position for all the ones I've got going now), and my decision could really end up being very significant. Or maybe not. After all, it is my first job. Some have told me if I don't like the job, or the field, I can always change cause I'm still young. Others have said that it would define my career so I have to choose carefully and 'not jump into the first job offer'. Which do I choose? I know both cases can be true.

But I'm getting ahead of myself, coz I've only had one offer out of the possible 3 so far...

Monday, 10 September 2007

Decisions decisions

Did I mention how much I hate making them? Especially if it could make or break your career, but you don't quite know, at this stage in life, how the decision could affect it.

Busy, busy weekend

I mentioned in the last post that I was going to see a concert that night (Friday, 7th August). The performers were 4 vocalists (I'm not sure of their ages), who formed the Bel Canto group. From what I can gather, they all reside in Kuching and were lucky enough to find a vocal coach in this city. They do not do this full time (wouldn't be able to make a living out of it here!).

The night was themed 'An Affair to Remember' and it was held at the Sarawak Tourism Complex Performing Arts Hall. The 4 vocalists were each a bass, tenor, alto and soprano, who performed a wide range of songs from Mozart's Requiem to the the more contemporary 'When You Believe' (off the soundtrack to The Prince of Egypt) and even the Turkish March. They were accompanied by a pianist, a drummer, and for one song, a (somewhat out-of-place) traditional dancer.

Each vocalist performed a solo piece, the best of which, to our family, was Cinema Paradiso by the bass singer. The tenor tried to give a lively performance - a lot of hand gestures and moving around the stage - and this was fine during the solo performance; unfortunately it made him stand out a bit too much in the group performance, and he overshadowed the rest of the singers.

There are a few ways in which the concert could have been improved, such as forbidding the consumption of food and drinks during the performance - there was a family behind us who kept munching on sweets and the rustling of wrappers and plastic bags was annoying and keeping me from concentrating fully on the beautiful rendition of Cinema Paradiso - and prohibit late comers from taking their seats until the song has finished. Also, perhaps turn up the microphones on the vocalists so we can hear them when the drums are thrown into the mix, as they were quite drowned out.

Each performer had their strengths and weaknesses. For example, the tenor noted above, and the soprano whose voice was quite mesmerising, but was a little stiff (and, in my humble opinion, a little overdressed) in comparison with her fellow performers. Their inexperience showed with some patchy parts, and they seemed to really tire at the end, however it was a good effort by the performers over about one and a half hours, which is no easy feat. Good entertainment overall.

On Saturday, I met up with 2 groups of friends - one here for the weekend, the other the group of school friends because L was going back to Germany the next day. Had dinner with dad's younger brother who is back for a holiday from KL.

Sunday, we went out for a family lunch to celebrate Mum's bday, and in the arvo we presented her with the tiramisu ice-cream cake that sis and I made, as well as some CDs we bought to go with her new car :) It was a bit tricky getting it out of the pan I'd assembled it in, but we managed.

Mum was pretty pleased with it all, and the family seemed to like the cake, which was good. I didn't want the same thing that happened to dad's. It (literally) went to the dogs.

Then it was off to futsal for what may will probably be my last Sunday session for a couple of months (hopefully it won't be longer than that), but that's IF the team stays together. Female politics I think.

Friday, 7 September 2007

Ok, this week has gone by waaaay too quickly. I can't believe I'm on Friday already. Too freaky.

The week so far has consisted of a night where I felt completely hopeless, an interview, catching up with family friends V and S again, and tonight being Thursday, futsal.

The interview went well, I think. Just waiting to hear back from them - in 2 weeks!

Futsal tonight was a mixed session with the boys, which was fun. I wish we could do it more often, but they probably prefer to have all-boys games more, because it is a lot more organised. I was keeper for a bit, during which time I got smacked in the face with the ball, bumped into someone's back and conceded quite a few goals (I think I'm better on the field!). And now my knee doesn't feel quite right, and I have a blister that refuses to pop/heal. On the upside, I scored a couple of goals, had a fairly good run as defender, and my toe that was cracked? Well, I've had it bandaged for most of the past 1-2 months, and guess that paid off, because the cracked part fell off tonight, but the replacement nail had already grown underneath! So no pain, and I don't have a weird-looking toe nail. Yippee!

I also saw someone I haven't seen for almost 14 years, which was completely amazing. Somehow, he recognised me, and called me by my nickname, which only family and people whom I grew up with in my old neighbourhood use. He was one of the guys I played street soccer with growing up, so it was quite ironic that we should meet 14 years later at futsal courts. Mind you, if he hadn't called me first, I would not have paid him much attention, but once I saw his face, I knew who he was. Unbelievable.

For the rest of the week, the plan is to see a concert tomorrow night (what's with all the concerts all of a sudden?), and then my brother will be back for the weekend, to celebrate mum's birthday, and also to spend time with my sis before she leaves on Monday. And futsal, though it seems that I will have to leave the session early for a family dinner. Guess I'll be pretty busy.

p.s. I have been absolutely horrendous at updating the foodblog. Hopefully I'll be able to squeeze that in amongst all the weekend hoohah.

Wednesday, 5 September 2007

Scaredy cat

She stands amongst the trees
There are many
But she is one
On her own

She sees the bough
R
eaches for it
Pull it down?
Pull herself up?

She wonders
Wanders
For a route out
The dense shrubbery

"Big girls don't cry"

But the child inside weeps
She needs some shelter
From herself, from the dreams

She braces against
Gust of wind
Bitter chill
Avalanche

Soul detached from body
Mind from spirit
Watch the life, joy, smile,
Dissipate, disappear

One day
Perhaps
She'll find home
Time will tell.

Monday, 3 September 2007

Mad week.

It has been quite a busy week since my last post. Gosh, has it really been that long?! This has been a week of full-on eating out, attending a concert, catching up with friends I have not seen for a looooong time, and a tiny bit of sport.

On Monday, I flew to KL to attend an interview scheduled for Tuesday. It started to rain just before the plane took off, so it was a very bumpy flight, and made me feel quite ill for some time afterwards.

The interview itself went ok, and I got offered a position (that was different to the one that I applied for). I'm considering the offer, because various parties feel it would not be in my best interests to take up that position.

Tuesday night, I went out for dinner with an aunt and her family, and was gifted with a gorgeous ring from her friend's newly-opened store in Bangsar Village. Both her friend and I were recipients of her goodwill (i.e. supporting her friend's business). Can't complain, can I?


On Wednesday, I hung out at said aunt's place, and met up with a couple of guys from futsal who happened to be in KL at the same time. It was a very strange night, because I met a couple of other guys I had not seen in a while, and didn't even know they were all connected in some way. This includes one whom I was supposed to meet with but never got back to me to confirm(!). By the end of the night, the 2 I came out to meet had gone home, and I hung out with a group I barely knew. I went to bed at 1am that night; annoyingly, I woke up at 4am and couldn't get back to sleep!

Thursday - I came back to Kuching, and dragged myself to a mixed futsal session. It was the eve of Malaysia's National Day. I have never seen the venue so quiet, almost eerily so. Only 3 courts were being used, and the light must have been so attractive to the insects, because there were hundreds if not thousands of them flying around our faces and into our ears that night. Many lives were sacrificed... We squished them, not intentionally, but somehow they got under our boots.

Friday was the celebration of Malaysia's supposed 50th year of independence. I say supposed, because there is a debate about whether Malaysia was formed in 1957 or 1963. The argument goes that Malaya achieved independence from the British in 1957, but Malaysia was formed in 1963, when the East Malaysian states (Sarawak and Sabah) and Singapore joined Malaya in September of that year. Regardless, it was an opportunity for many a patriot to stick miniature flags to their cars, attach flags to the bonnets of their cars, and hang them from balconies and shophouses in the days/weeks leading up to the event.

I know that I woke up late on Friday, after another restless night (fell asleep at about 4am), and can't really remember what I did the rest of that day :) Oh, how could I forget. We went to the airport to see off a friend whom we played junior squash with. She's my sister's age, and is going to start college in Harvard! On a scholarship! Another candidate for, if not already a member of, the Overachiever's Club. :) But she deserves everything that she has achieved and will probably one day be a famous scientist.

Saturday afternoon, we went out for lunch at a 'fine foods' outlet. Then it was squash with the sister. That night, mum and I attended a charity concert, where I met a couple of my futsal teammates, and one of the guys I met up with in KL, R (who is the boyfriend of one of the girls). It was nice to see familiar faces! lol. I'm starting to feel pretty comfortable with this couple, partly because I have seen them in a social setting that does not involve shouting and chasing a ball. After the concert there was a 'wine party', so for the second time last week, I drank alcohol. If you know me, you'll know that this is unusual. Even more unusual is drinking the company of people I haven't known for long. But from what I know of R, apart from the fact that he has a girlfriend, he's decent, and not the type to take advantage of a girl :) Well, mum was there so I didn't have anything to worry about. lol.

Yesterday we had a Korean/Japanese family lunch, which was quite good. Then I met up with some friends from school, including one who's back for a holiday from Germany. It was good to see them, although I look forward to a one-on-one catch up session with LL over lunch tomorrow.

Last night, we had dinner at the Sarawak Club with 2 other families. One family we see every once in a while at the Club; the other we haven't seen in ages, much less caught up with as a family! The latter are the girls that I grew up with, until the age of 10 when we moved to the other side of town(!). I missed that neighbourhood, where everyone was so sociable and friendly. I used to climb over the low wall that separated our car porch from this family's, because apparently walking out the gate and into their garage was too much effort for me ;) Then there were the evenings playing street soccer, barefooted, with the boys who lived in the other houses around ours. This is probably where my love of soccer comes from, before I even started watching the EPL. Dinner was such a laugh, and the conversation was so smooth, it was like we'd never been apart. But that, as someone once said to me, is how you know you've got a friend for life. You don't see each other for years, but one day you meet, and you talk and talk and talk, and then talk some more.

Today I went to a bank to get more information on a particular position that some people have suggested I consider applying for. Basically to get a feel of whether I would like the work, and can see myself doing it. I can see myself doing it, but not necessarily for the reasons that most people would think of.

That is the last week and a day in a quick wrap. You can understand now why I have not been able to update this blog as much as I would have liked!